Revisit of the Numb Hand

We can only truly understand people once we have experienced their pain

Posted by Meaning of Life on May 10, 2016

The adventure

Springing up from my sleeping position, it came back …

Tonight was such a confusing night …

Sitting on the steps to my bed, I waited for my blue chargeable hot water bottle to warm up before I went to bed. I was thinking about the beautiful songs that my friends were singing during the night and how well they sang. I looked at the clock and it was 11:00pm already.

I climbed into bed hugging the warm water bottle that I used for my second time so far. I placed the pillow aside and stretched out my neck. My dad use to tell me that is really good for my neck because I have a habit of leaning forward when I type too long on the computer. I swallowed a couple gulps of saliva, but it was getting difficult. I realised that my neck was finding it hard to adjust. A couple of minutes later when this was getting slightly uncomfortable, I decided to get my pillow back and sleep normally… So there I was … out.

I semi woke up on my left side and felt my arm being seriously dead so I decided to sleep on my back. I carried on sleeping.

Slowly but surely, with the uncomfortable blanket pushing against my throat, I started moving my left hand around to feel my neck and my other arm. Something was troubling me and I couldn’t get to sleep.

My neck felt very foreign … my right arm felt very foreign … Wait a second, my left hand felt foreign. It didn’t feel like it was my own hand but I still had control over it. Moving it around and feeling things. My left hand was warm and soft but again … it felt like a dead person’s body that I am feeling where this dead body was recently murdered. Like it happened 2 minutes ago.

Picking this signal up and remembering the horrible feeling of having a disjointed arm in my previous experience, I jumped up straight away and started moving my hand around to keep my blood and nerves moving. I was awake. I did not want to have the feeling of losing an arm again. I lay down in bed again after sitting up. I felt my left arm and it was ice cold. I felt my right arm and it was body temperature. I started feeling the trickles starting again. I sat up. This is somewhat disturbing me. May I please sleep without having to be terrified about losing a limb please?

Sigh … I sat up again with each arm hugging the other arm and fell asleep for a minute in the up-right sitting position. I was tired. This wasn’t working.

I climbed off bed with a slight fear. I switched on the lights. It was 12:30AM.

My thoughts

I can finally understand how some people have a fear of sleeping where they have to go to sleep with a sense of fear stuck in the middle of their heart. It’s not about the sleep, but more about what happens during the sleep. What happens when you’re in a state where you cannot control? Sometimes it feels as if you are possessed and you fight a battle against an unknown force in order to gain control of your body. And the questions is "Will something happen to me during this time?" Will I still have my left arm by the time I wake up? If I do end up losing my body, am I willing to give it up now? Am I doing what I am supposed to with the given life span of my life? Am I having too much fun to the extent that I forget what my priority is?

And the last question that I am still busy asking myself now as I type this out … Do I still have the will power to climb back into bed? My left arm is still cold …

Seated on this hard surfaced chair thinking about how I need to wake up to get to work at 6:30AM …

Anyway, have a lovely night ^_^

I am sure this ocean will let me know the meaning of life once I am ready for it…


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